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5 Reasons Why Men Lie

Men lie because they choose to. There isn’t a science or documented bibliographical stone tablet hidden in the Amazon that says “Men lie because…” For many reasons (I will name a few) lying for most men is second nature and in some cases first nature. It simply comes natural and they think it’s easier, especially when you first meet. There’s no such thing as a ‘disease’... Read More
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Are Black Women Afraid of Sex?

Pretty black girl In the latest magazine issue of Black Woman, I read an enlightening article about black women being sexually inhibited. The article is by Cheryl J. Questeli and she sheds a logical insight on black men and women views of sex overall and, with their significant others. Cheryl starts with the common practice of mothers talking to their little girls about sex. They’ll talk... Read More
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Use the Law of Attraction to Attract the Right One and ALL GOOD Things into Your Life!

Hey everybody! I came across something very exciting I want to mention to you, as I think you will get a lot of value out of it. OrangePeel Vision Boards has come up with this amazing tool called “Vision Board”. These guys put together a very powerful system that you can use to create a virtual Vision Board on your computer. You can include your personal pictures,... Read More
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Top 5 Things To Know He Is NOT The RIGHT One

cool guy These should be considered 'deal breakers' before you get involved with a man.

He Doesn’t Call You Back When He Says He Will
Returning a phone call is fundamental. Most everyone knows how to perform this easy act. Therefore, when a guy says he will call you on a specific date and time and he frequently doesn’t, DO NOT go any further. Drop him like a dropped call. It’s usually... Read More
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Closing The Door

closing the door I have a girlfriend (not that kind of girlfriend) whom I’ve known for years. She’s a wonderful spirit and for the most part does all the right things in life to be good to herself and others. She gave me permission to write this post with the promise of maintaining her anonymity. Thank you!

We were talking the other day and I was just sharing with her some things that I’ve... Read More
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Date Tip # 7 "She's Just A Friend"

Ladies, the purpose of this blog is to educate and promote healthy love and relationships by providing information and insight from a black man’s perspective. It’s to help you enhance your current relationships, and recognize some things about yourself so that you can overcome or avoid some of the challenges you may experience in dating to find the RIGHT man, to have a... Read More
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Is He Really... "Just A Friend"?

Can someone please explain to me what it means when SHE says “He’s just a friend?!” What does that mean?? He’s just a friend but I can’t ever meet him? Does it mean he’s “just a friend” NOW because what ya’ll had didn’t work out? Is he just a friend because you want to be more than that to him but he’s not feeling you like that? Or is he “just a friend” when it comes to me... Read More
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What a Few Brotha’s Think About Sistas

brotha thinkingI was just curious about this thought. So I personally surveyed 27 black men this week via telephone and email. I simply asked, “When you think about a Black woman, what’s the first thing that comes to your mind?”(Disclaimer: The following comments or quotes are NOT those of the author and should not be recognized as such)
Listed are the most common and original responses... Read More
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Men make mistakes. Can women FORGIVE?

Sometimes men make mistakes. I mean it really truly is a mistake. Often men become disoriented with their thinking process regarding women and relationships. Often it’s not the reality that the grass is NOT greener, but it’s the fantasy that the grass IS greener. Most married men will think long and hard before crossing the line to see if Ms. Jones has better fertilizer... Read More

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You are UNLIMITED

unlimitedThis past weekend I fulfilled an additional step in my process of becoming a Certified Life Empowerment Coach, specifically focused on African-American women and building relationships. I am compelled to share with you (and anybody who will listen) the incredible experience I had during this training. Let me just say, It is one thing to have someone tell you that you can... Read More

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The Cinderella Dream

cinderellaDo you have a girlfriend that is always single? You know the type of woman that is smart, witty, moderately successful, and beautiful on the outside, out going when it comes to her friends and family, almost always meets the finest guy in the room. She meets the doctors, executives, athletes,lawyers, and the smartest guy in the class room… Yeah…that one! Why can’t she EVER... Read More

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You Can Love Again

lady seekingWhen a woman has been hurt by a man she sometimes becomes a woman scorned. In many cases it is difficult to heal from such pain much less forgive HIM and in some cases forgive you. It can be tough to forget. Often the pain is so over whelming that she becomes hardened. To carry such pain for so long to the extent that it changes how she loves someone, how someone loves her... Read More
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Love Tip #11: Just give him some space

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Sometimes men just need a little "Me" time. We don’t have to hang out at the clubs all night with the guys, nor do we have to be surrounded by a harem of women to entertain us until the early hours of the morning. All a guy needs is some “Me” time. Often when a man is married or in a committed relationship (and it doesn’t matter how long) he can find himself... Read More
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Ask yourself “Would I Date ME?

thinking girlWhat do you think about when you look in the mirror at yourself? Do you think… “Damn I’m sexy! I can have any man I want.” Or “Look at me, I know he wants’ me…shooo why wouldn’t he?” Thing is you are probably right. You are sexy. You are fine. You can have any man you want. But the main question you need to answer is… Why wouldn’t he want you? One the most difficult... Read More
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Women and Men Think Differently About Dating

Have you ever thought about how men and women view dating? Good question right? I mean we take it for granted that we are on the same page of thinking when we meet someone and began to have a relationship with them. It’s almost instantaneous that men and women simply want to make sure we have something in common with each other so there can at least be some topics to... Read More
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Where Do I Meet Guys That Share My Interest?

fun coupleThis is a great question that was posted by a reader whose name is Anonymous. Thank you Anonymous for the question.

Here’s a common phrase that we are all too familiar with, “If there are any good men out there, where are they?” Well, let me start by saying the “Good Man” is where ever you place yourself to recognize him. If you like going to the club, or happy hour then... Read More

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I LOVE MYSELF SO MUCH!!

Full of LifeThe definition of self esteem is as follows: a realistic respect for or favorable impression of oneself; self-respect.

Healthy relationships and self esteem go hand-in-hand. Low Self esteem is a growing concern amongst African American women. It’s puzzling, considering the increasing number of successful black business women, and black women entrepreneurs. Let’s also recognize... Read More

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