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Where do I find a good man? Tip #1 of many

Have you ever noticed how often you say to yourself or out loud where can I find a decent man? I’ll bet if you really thought about it, you’d be surprised to learn that you probably say it more than you’re willing to admit. While you’re noticing how many times a day you’re saying I can’t find a good man, also notice the places and environments you are looking for him. This... Read More
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Why Is It So Hard to Leave When I Know its Wrong?

A woman often stays with a man when she knows she should go. I’ve heard of many reasons why she stays even if he treats her like dirt, cheat on her, abuses her, lie to her habitually, and just flat out disrespects her. Many women stay because they don’t want to start over, some rarely admit it but, the sex is so intense that it keeps her from leaving and throws out all... Read More
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Ladies you can’t change a man...EVER!

he's not changingRaise your hand if you have tried to change a man…aah ha. OK, raise your hand if you are currently with a man that “just ain’t acting right”. I see. You mean if he would just do This, This, This and THIS he would be THE PERFECT MAN! Yes, yes, I see. Nod your head Yes, if you feel like you are constantly banging your head against the wall getting the same results (if any)... Read More
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Attracting Mr.Right by Trisha Martin

Trisha MartinLadies, we’ve all gone through it; wearing our knees out praying for Mr. Right. Okay, don’t play; I know I’m not the only one. Well let me tell you, after I embarked on my journey to find Mr. Right while only in my early teens, I truly believe I’ve got him. Notice I didn’t say, “I FOUND him.” I didn’t know it then, but I most certainly know it now, Mr. Right/Ms. Right, finds... Read More

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What do I do when ALL he wants is SEX…and NO Commitment?

This is a situation that is very common in the dating arena. Often women get into what I call the “sex zone” with a man. The interaction normally starts out with regular dates i.e., movies, dinner, drinks, shows etc. The guy usually talks a good game expressing that he wants all the same things you want out of life and a relationship. He’s ready for a commitment, he wants... Read More
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5 Reasons Why Men Lie

Men lie because they choose to. There isn’t a science or documented bibliographical stone tablet hidden in the Amazon that says “Men lie because…” For many reasons (I will name a few) lying for most men is second nature and in some cases first nature. It simply comes natural and they think it’s easier, especially when you first meet. There’s no such thing as a ‘disease’... Read More
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Are Black Women Afraid of Sex?

Pretty black girl In the latest magazine issue of Black Woman, I read an enlightening article about black women being sexually inhibited. The article is by Cheryl J. Questeli and she sheds a logical insight on black men and women views of sex overall and, with their significant others. Cheryl starts with the common practice of mothers talking to their little girls about sex. They’ll talk... Read More
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Top 5 Things To Know He Is NOT The RIGHT One

cool guy These should be considered 'deal breakers' before you get involved with a man.

He Doesn’t Call You Back When He Says He Will
Returning a phone call is fundamental. Most everyone knows how to perform this easy act. Therefore, when a guy says he will call you on a specific date and time and he frequently doesn’t, DO NOT go any further. Drop him like a dropped call. It’s usually... Read More
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Date Tip # 7 "She's Just A Friend"

Ladies, the purpose of this blog is to educate and promote healthy love and relationships by providing information and insight from a black man’s perspective. It’s to help you enhance your current relationships, and recognize some things about yourself so that you can overcome or avoid some of the challenges you may experience in dating to find the RIGHT man, to have a... Read More
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Is He Really... "Just A Friend"?

Can someone please explain to me what it means when SHE says “He’s just a friend?!” What does that mean?? He’s just a friend but I can’t ever meet him? Does it mean he’s “just a friend” NOW because what ya’ll had didn’t work out? Is he just a friend because you want to be more than that to him but he’s not feeling you like that? Or is he “just a friend” when it comes to me... Read More
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Ask yourself “Would I Date ME?

thinking girlWhat do you think about when you look in the mirror at yourself? Do you think… “Damn I’m sexy! I can have any man I want.” Or “Look at me, I know he wants’ me…shooo why wouldn’t he?” Thing is you are probably right. You are sexy. You are fine. You can have any man you want. But the main question you need to answer is… Why wouldn’t he want you? One the most difficult... Read More
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Women and Men Think Differently About Dating

Have you ever thought about how men and women view dating? Good question right? I mean we take it for granted that we are on the same page of thinking when we meet someone and began to have a relationship with them. It’s almost instantaneous that men and women simply want to make sure we have something in common with each other so there can at least be some topics to... Read More
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Where Do I Meet Guys That Share My Interest?

fun coupleThis is a great question that was posted by a reader whose name is Anonymous. Thank you Anonymous for the question.

Here’s a common phrase that we are all too familiar with, “If there are any good men out there, where are they?” Well, let me start by saying the “Good Man” is where ever you place yourself to recognize him. If you like going to the club, or happy hour then... Read More

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