This past weekend I fulfilled an additional step in my process of becoming a Certified Life Empowerment Coach, specifically focused on African-American women and building relationships. I am compelled to share with you (and anybody who will listen) the incredible experience I had during this training. Let me just say, It is one thing to have someone tell you that you can have anything you want, and all you have to do is believe in yourself. It’s an entirely different thing to experience what you believe.

During the training I learned of obstacles called Energy Blocks. There are four of them:
Gremlin-Your inner critic that tells you, in one way or another, that you are not good enough

Assumption-An expectation that, because something has happened in the past, it will happen again

Interpretation- An opinion or judgment that you can create about an event, situation, person, or experience and believe to be true

Limiting Beliefs- Something that you accept about life, about yourself, about your world, or about the people in it, that limits you in some way

Often many of us do not realize that ‘ourselves’ are our biggest ‘blocker’ of attracting the things we dream and hope for every day. For example, love, prosperity, change and growth. In other words, a good relationship with a good man or woman, a nice job or successful career, change from the same environment or from meeting the same type of people and having the same old results. And lastly, growth for ourselves through our true belief and passion from within.

Review the definition of the fourth energy blocker- Limiting Beliefs. Let me help you understand and trust that you CAN overcome those beliefs that you are afraid of letting go. Those exact limitations are what prevent you from being the best person you can be, and attracting the best love you deserve. The world is really your creation within you. Imagine for a moment if you committed to fulfilling your hopes and dreams, and buried the limiting beliefs in your life... you could have exactly what you want.

“Obstacles are those frightening things you see when you take your eye off the target.” –Curt Carlson

The following is what my coach certification program IPEC COACHING calls a Foundation Principle:

The world is a perceptual illusion   

Understand what your energy blocks are and release them...let them go.

Try embracing this mindset daily:

I DESERVE ALL THINGS GOOD. I DESERVE ALL THINGS GOOD. I DESERVE ALL THINGS GOOD.

You CAN have the best of everything, especially a healthy loving relationship, if you believe it.

Peace is love, love is infinite...

Shelby
Relationship Empowerment Coach