brotha thinkingI was just curious about this thought. So I personally surveyed 27 black men this week via telephone and email. I simply asked, “When you think about a Black woman, what’s the first thing that comes to your mind?” (Disclaimer: The following comments or quotes are NOT those of the author and should not be recognized as such)
Listed are the most common and original responses and thoughts:
  • Chocolate, Chocolate, Chocolate!  (David)
  • Caramel, Caramel, Caramel! (David)
  • Strength and natural beauty
  • One of the Sexiest creatures on this planet (Kevin P.)
  • Headache (Terrance)
  • I-N-D-E-P-E-N-D-E-N-T (he actually said it that way too) (J.Thomas)
  • My baby Mama… she killing me on ‘dem payments (Robert)
  • “When I think of black women, I think of how broke I am.” (Tony)
  • Good loving
  • “My Mom. She’s the best black woman I know”. (Brandon)
  • Black women will Sacrifice (for their family) (Ryan)
  • Beautiful Curvaceous Bodies (John J.)
  • Powerful
  • Too hard on a brotha
  • All about money
  • Most black women that got something, look down on a brotha trying to do something.
  • Loyalty and Honesty
  • “She’ll love you forever, just don’t cross her!” (Marlon H.)
  • “My girl always has my back.” (Harold)
  • Very ambitious and determined
  • Giving
  • Opportunist
  • Very smart
  • African Queen
  • “There are some bad ones out there, just like us black men. But I believe most  Black women are diamonds in a ruff.” (Darryl W.)
  • “People need to recognize that black women are a FORCE to reckon with.  
         Brotha's are sleeping…for real!” (Michael L.)

Well, my Sista’s there you have it. That was with a small group of 27 black men. It looks to me that there are quite a few Black men that view Black women in a high regard. There obviously are some good Black men out there. Open your hearts and eyes ladies…see them and let them in.

Peace is Love, Love is Infinite…
Shelby Hill
Relationship Empowerment Coach

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