Top 5 Things To Know He Is NOT The RIGHT One

These should be considered 'deal breakers' before you get involved with a man.

He Doesn’t Call You Back When He Says He Will
Returning a phone call is fundamental. Most everyone knows how to perform this easy act. Therefore, when a guy says he will call you on a specific date and time and he frequently doesn’t, DO NOT go any further. Drop him like a dropped call. It’s usually a sign of irresponsibility and lack of respect for your time. It won’t lead to anything healthy or positive.

He Has a Girlfriend
If a guy has a girlfriend and he’s out on a date with you, this should give you a very clear picture of his lack of integrity. DO NOT think he will treat you differently; eventually you will be his girlfriend while he’s out on a date with another woman.

He Brings Up Sex On The 1^st, 2^nd,3^rd, 4^th or 5^th Date
I believe the purpose of dating is to get to know a person, you know… learn about each other. If the guy is making comments or innuendoes about sex, then you already know where his head is. This is the most obvious sign that he is not looking for anything long-term, so don’t be naive. Sleeping with him so soon will not guarantee he’s going to stay with you. And waiting to sleep with him doesn’t guarantee a relationship either. However, if you’re really interested in the guy, just date him for at least a couple of months. Give him some time to show you who he really is and what he’s about. If he’s faking, he can’t fake it forever (most guys can’t fake it for a week).

His Baby Mama
If a guy is ALWAYS having baby mama drama, do yourself a huge favor... walk away. Save yourself! The drama will always be there. It most often does not change…ever. If the baby mama is always causing static, there are still some unresolved issues with their relationship and you should remove yourself from the situation. These situations often get ugly.

Always at the Club
Ladies, if a grown man is still running to the club every week or every other week, clearly he’s still searching for something and he doesn’t quite see you as it. Save yourself the headache, there should be no competition for quality time between you and frequent nights at the club.

Bonus Tips:
Married Man
I don’t believe an explanation is needed (I Hope).

He’s ALWAYS On His Phone During The Date
Listen; if he’s not paying attention to you and you’re right in front of him on your first couple of dates, he definitely isn’t going to be very attentive throughout your relationship.

Peace is Love…Love is Infinite

Shelby M. Hill
Relationship Empowerment Coach

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