Happy Couple When it comes down to it, men are looking for 3 things in his ideal female companion and they are:
1. Nurturing
2. Healthy love for HERself
3. The ability to give and receive

Now you may be asking, well Shelby, what about loyalty, confidence, trust, career etc? And my answer to that is this…if she possess’ these simple but ever-so-powerful qualities then she most likely encompasses everything else. Think about it, this is the core of a woman. She innately is born with these qualities.
Nurturing is all about the desire of taking care others. Not just kids or babies, but your man as well. The aspiration of making sure your man’s needs and desires are met, while at the same time cultivating your desires as well. Most men are very nurturing to their woman when the relationship is healthy.

A woman having Healthy Love for HERself is so attractive to most men. It demonstrates that she is confident, career oriented, positive about life and so many other attributes that are connected to the core-self. Do not confuse “Healthy Love for HERself” as vain. There is absolutely a distinct difference in her mindset and the vibration she exudes.  It is because she loves herself she is able to love the right way for the right reasons.

For a woman to be able to Give and Receive is like Luther Van Dross singing Amazing Grace a cappella. It’s a beautiful thing! It’s unfortunate that this is challenging for some women. However, it can change for those of you who struggle. You HAVE TO give in order to receive anything worth having. It’s the law of the universe. To give to others and especially to your man without selfish expectations and agendas makes for a fruitful relationship. It makes the relationship strong and the love long lasting.

So, I conclude the post with expressing to you that the 3 qualities is the nucleus of a “Good” woman. With these 3 simple but ever-so-powerful qualities she can take care of her man when he is sick or down and out. Because she loves herself she can love her man even more so. She can be his pillar when he needs her to be. She can support him and encourage him when he thinks he CAN’T achieve his dream. Because she loves herself, she already comes with trust, loyalty, compassion and so much more. And because she knows how to Give and Receive, she will always have all things good in her life, including a good man.

Peace is Love, Love is Infinite…

Shelby
Relationship Empowerment Coach

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