He's Innocent Until Proven Guilty

One thing that is very precious to a woman is her trust. Trust is not something that most women hand out regularly or easily by any means. Men want nothing more than for a woman to trust him. When a man with good intentions senses that his lady trusts him it can make him more trustworthy. He wants his woman to be proud of him for his efforts and his integrity. Trusting him provides a great sense of security for him just as it does for her.

Trust with most anyone is difficult to establish. Although when dating, the challenge is to not assume you can't trust him just because…

Often the natural tendency for a woman whose trust has been broken is to withdraw it, lock it away and rarely ever release it again to another man because the last man didn’t handle her trust with honor and care. Therefore, the assumption to her is every man will mishandle her trust.
That’s not true. When you get involved with someone, not trusting him from the start of things isn’t the “right” thing to do. To make him guilty before the crime is committed is a bit unfair to both of you. The “right” thing to do is to give him a chance, only if there is a genuine sense of interest from both of you.

Typically when a man is trustworthy, his actions, commitment, and follow through will over shadow any doubts you may have had about trusting him. Should there be a frequency of small breaks of your trust along the way while you are seeing him, these should not go ignored. Often it's leading up to a path of the Ultimate breach of trust. It may be time for you to trust your instincts and move forward without him. At that point you should be able to do so without having experienced significant hurt but, knowing you were fair to him and most importantly to yourself.

The "right" thing to do is to trust him until he gives you a reason not to trust him. You wouldln't want to risk the possibility of not having a man that can honor you with the trust you feel you deserve as well as he may feel the same.

Peace is Love, Love is Infinite…

Shelby M. Hill
Dating/Relationship Empowerment Coach

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